🎵: adrielng 📽: Vile a Vile

Anonymous asked:

Are you ever coming back?

No.
If you wish to have further contact with me then come off anon and I will give you contact information.

I don’t have time or the strength to deal with senseless harassment. My energy is being dedicated towards positive things. Entertaining and feeding my ex and their friends the attention and reactions they seek from me is not on my list of things to do.

I apologize for anyone that is let down by this response.
Please take care of yourselves.

Anonymous asked:

Hey, it Kelee. You really helped me overcome my situation with my family. They're still not comfortable with it completely, but they kind of think of it like role-playing. So when I dress up as Ciara the racoon (my fursona) they don't abuse me.

I’m so glad to hear that! I’m sure once they see that it’s a perfectly normal hobby and a great way to express creativity and allows you to be yourself, they’ll be more agreeable to it! If you would feel comfortable coming off anon we could talk more about it easily. Of course and as always, you are completely entitled to being anonymous and you don’t need to come off anon. Things are happening in my life and I may not be able to answer further anons for a long while. That’s the only reason why I suggested it.

Anonymous asked:

You need to take down the post with the screenshots. It is harassment.

If I delete them or not it doesn’t matter. Those images are already out there on the Internet. Just like all of the harassment they have posted toward me that they deleted. I’ve contacted the appropriate people at my university and it will be taken care of.

It’s like you all were just waiting for me to defend myself. None of you will ever know what happened because Emily will lie and twist the truth for her favor so people don’t “abandon” her. She will slander me in any way to make sure that I’m alone and she’s favored. Her and her friends are so malicious, envious, and petty. Instead of moving on and trying to accept that some people are just different she went running to people that she claimed to have hated because she knew they would believe any lies she had to say and that they would push me out of safe spaces.
Meanwhile, I’m minding my own business and trying to block as many people as I can to get away from this hatred and drama. To move on.

Anonymous asked:

I truly do not understand your motive besides humiliating someone who was obviously in love with you. All you have done is proven Emily's point that you can be selfish, aggressive, and downright mean. The simple fact that you posted those screenshots makes me absolutely horrified of you too. This is unbelievably immature. I think Emily has already notified UC of this, but I'm going to as well. This is not okay.

My motive is to stick up for myself to these terrible accusations and harassment. You’re right. No it’s not okay and it hasn’t been since Emily and I broke up. This is a reaction to her not being able to accept “I’m unhappy” and “we are different” as a valid reason for a breakup. It’s fine. UC already knows.

Anonymous asked:

Besides posting on her private blog, Emily has not said or done anything like what you're accusing her of. She hasn't even been on campus because she's so scared of you, but you disregard that? She has eluded to the fact that she and others do not feel comfortable with you in these spaces because of things even prior to the break up. Why can't you address these? Why post screenshots of what she said during an extremely emotionally vulnerable state instead?

I can’t address the slander she and Stevie have posted about me because they went back and deleted them. They made terrible accusations about me and have encouraged others to believe so too.

Anonymous asked:

Does your campus not have any queer spaces? lmao

They do, but these people want to make those places unsafe for me too.

None of you realize that I don’t have any other proof that my ex is lying other than these texts.
I keep to myself when bad things happened. I didn’t start this. You all think that I’m actively doing this but since our break up, I have been slandered and lied about. Out of all of the people that are harassing me, no one has contacted me. For two months I left them unblocked and no one contacted me.
After I was tired of seeing people blatantly lie about me I blocked them. I thought if I could block them they would stop but they didn’t.
I thought that I had either blocked enough people or that they had finally stopped over break but I was wrong.
Saying its your goal to make a safe space unsafe for someone that you’ve never given a chance to defend themselves is fucked up.

Anonymous asked:

*Make you uncomfortable in women's spaces. WOMENS SPACES. You are not a fucking woman and you've been abusive to women, so yes, you should no longer be occupying those spaces.

So are you saying that anyone who doesn’t identify as a woman should be able to has access to the women’s center, one of the only places on campus that can off even a small amount of help with abuse? Obviously there’s a lot less now without reclaim. Also, what about women who abuse? I definitely agree that the Women’s Center should be for women since they are an oppressed group but what about people that don’t identify as a woman? Where are they supposed to go?

urnasty:

i let so many people take advantage of me cuz i’d rather have their company fuck me up mentally than not have it at all

I thought these people were done harassing me but when someone says it’s their new years resolution to make me uncomfortable when you haven’t contacted any of them and haven’t made any kind of post whatsoever about them, who’s really the one not letting go?

Anonymous asked:

Those text messages were from September... did you keep them so that you could put them on the internet for "proof" that you weren't an abusive dick? I mean I'm sure texts were sent after that point in time. Like a conversation over a period of two days does not discredit someone's abuse in a relationship that lasted for months.

Yes these messages are from September but these messages are also from when we broke up. As I have stated before, I let people look through entire conversations, all of them. I have saved the good and the bad. I only chose to screenshot all of this when I found out her and her friends (who I’m assuming you’re one of) chose to slander me and push me out of safe spaces. If tumblr would allow sharing of 200+ pictures of conversations then I would share them all. I don’t have anything to hide.

Anonymous asked:

Well for someone to say that you are emotionally abusive, there must have been more occurrences than that one conversation. My point is that one conversation does not prove anything. A conversation can be manipulated to show anything. I do not see anything wrong with the conversation on either of your parts, so I am confused why you have it tagged as abusive.

I tagged it as abuse in case it would be triggering to someone that follows me.

Anonymous asked:

I am confused what the screen caps are supposed to be prooving. Can you clarify?

My ex tells people that I am heartless and that I told her that I didn’t want to be with her because she was crazy.
She has also stated that this is emotional abuse.
I have shared these so people can see how we both went about our breakup and what was truly said between us.
Not what she has fabricated.

Going on hiatus. I’ll be back when they finally leave me alone.

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